Showing posts with label planning. Show all posts
Showing posts with label planning. Show all posts

Wednesday, May 21, 2008

Verizon, you're killing me

Apparently, I'm much more comfortable with product pans than with glowing reviews. (Oh, you know what I can rave about? "ScribeFire" it's a Firefox add-on I'm composing in right now. Awesome! Among it' wonderful features: easy posting to several blogs without having to go to the blogger site and log in--handy for those of us with several secret identities. Who me? Not me.)

So, I have this long list of things I've done to prepare for my trip. Most are completed (in no particular order):
  • Find reasonable no-fee banking situation
  • Cancel/suspend Netflix
  • Cancel electric service
  • Cancel gas service
  • Lower student loan payments
  • Route mortgage payments through new bank account
  • Hand over treasurer duties to condo-mates (sorta)
  • Email European friends about plans
  • Get rid of tons of clothing and miscellaneous other junk
  • Cancel/suspend cell phone
  • Cancel US health insurance
  • Buy European health insurance
  • Get French Visa
  • Assemble enormous amount of paper work for French visa
  • Price storage units (too high!)
  • Transfer cat to KJ
  • Transfer camping gear to Pele
  • Convey far too much information to future renter
  • Download and edit lease for renter
  • Advertise the van as for sale
  • Give away/sell various household items via internet
  • Send dozens of emails arranging to see apartments in Paris
  • Rent Paris apartment!
  • Resolve many pending condo banking issues
  • Ask for leave of absence
  • Write memo justifying leave request
  • Cancel DSL service
A few things are pending:
  • Cancel work-gym membership
  • Transfer bike to Pele
  • Ask Dad for email address of European friend of family
  • Organize/store remaining items at home
  • Clean the house
  • Reserve shuttle ride to airport on Monday
  • Retrieve boxes from basement and pack up entertainment equipment
One of the pending items was to cancel my Verizon DSL service. I'd made the decision to cancel a while ago, but it seemed like today was the day to do it. The exchange was frustrating. First, the fellow on the phone strongly encouraged me to suspend the account (for only $9.99/month!). I don't use my Verizon email address, so there is no reason to pay to keep the account. Then he said they couldn't guarantee the deal I currently have (which isn't great) and that I'd have to pay all kinds of fees to restart the account. The fee? A $30 connection fee. Let's see: 9.99 x 6 = 59.94. Still pays for me to cancel. So I asked him to disconnect me as of 5/27 (the day after I leave). Annoying but done.

But no. I get an email a few minutes later about my "cancellation order effective 5-21-08." Uh oh--are they canceling me today? That would be...not a disaster...but a real pain in the ass. I call. They're canceling me on FRIDAY (5/23) not MONDAY (5/27), as I requested. And they can't do a damn thing about it. The order is in the system. The end. THE END.

I hate you Verizon. True, I'm too cheap to go with another service if you still have the lowest price, but I'm writing a letter to HQ telling them how much you suck and that they need to get some competent employees. Sigh.

Grateful for: the coffee shop around the corner with free wifi.

Monday, May 19, 2008

Van o' mine

A few weeks ago, I decided I'd try to sell the van (a 1989 VW camper, formerly my mom's, which I took possession of in October--when I drove it from Seattle to DC).

I put an ad up on "thesamba.com" and asked for $10,000. Yes, it was priced high, but that's what Mom said it was worth. It looked comparable to the other campers for sale.

And I heard...nothing. I cross-posted on Craigslist, which got me two bites. Eventually, I got two more bites. One guy wanted me to drive the van to him to inspect. Um, no thanks. Another person offered me $2,500!!! Damn, that's really low-balling. I mean, on thesamba.com, $2,500 is where the parts vehicles start.

It's fine, because I don't need to sell the van. Sure, I could use the money, but I don't need the money. It's handy to have a vehicle and it will be handy to have it when I come back.

Still, I wondered why I wasn't getting more interest. Today, it finally hit me: it's the economic downturn, stupid!

I feel like I'm living in some bubble where the economy is good but all around me things are slowly collapsing. I'm lucky and privileged. And if I'm really lucky, I'll have a fully functioning, non-vandalized van to come home to. Fingers crossed.

Grateful for: my inherent/parent-bestowed frugality.

Friday, May 16, 2008

Socks!

Last night, I finished the second sock in my first pair of adult socks. Hooray! A colleague asked how long it took to knit these socks and I honestly don't know--many, many hours, I'm sure. I finished the first sock a few weeks ago--long before the trip to Paris--and then I got sidetracked by other projects. When I got back from Paris, I got to work on the second sock because, really, what good is one sock with no mate?

Today, I couldn't resist wearing the pair, even though I really should have washed the new sock. They are a little too warm for the weather, I can feel them a little, but they are not uncomfortable. I'm impressed with myself, even those these socks contain no embellishments or a pretty pattern. Being able to knit your own socks is just...cool. I really wonder how well they'll hold up since I've read on many a knitting blog about holes in hand knit socks...but if that happens, it's no great loss because this yarn was quite inexpensive. I would be sad, though, if my first pair of socks didn't last very long.

Besides the socks, I don't have much to report. I managed to do a tiny bit of work today and wrap up a few things around the office. I have to pack my office and I haven't lifted a finger in that direction yet. (We will either be moved or cubed while I'm gone.) My house is a bit chaotic because I spent the morning pulling things out of closets, reorganizing and deciding what to dump and what to donate. I was an hour late to work. I did make plans with Pele for tonight and get a Tabitha (the cat) update from KJ. Tabby is doing just fine. (See Tabitha settling in here.)

I do wonder if I should try to organize some kind of get-together before I go. Unfortunately, I can't make the DC blogger meet-up next week, and the idea of sending email, picking a place for a happy hour or otherwise expending energy on organizing an event to be beyond my capacity. I'm not in the mood! So, if you know me and you want to see me before I go, email or call and we'll figure something out. Otherwise, I'll see you in December--or when you come to visit me in Paris.

Grateful for: time to figure it all out.

Thursday, May 15, 2008

The stuff

At what point does thinking about packing become so overwhelming that it's better to just start packing?

While I may not keep the cleanest house in the world, it's exceptionally tidy. But I do have my junk drawers. Even those are neat enough that you can see everything in them. But much of what I have in my drawers and closets is not worth saving...yet it's not clear if I should throw it all away.

A couple of examples. I have two ancient historical lamps. Not heirlooms, exactly, but cool mod-style things purchases by my parents either before or soon after my birth. One of these lamps I don't care for very much...wait, nevermind, that was easy. The less loved lamp goes! Neither lamp works well, but the one I really like takes up a lot less space, so I'll keep it and repair it later. The other one can go to the alley.

Another example: my cassette tapes. They are so unloved that they don't even live near the stereo (which has a tape deck), but reside in the depths of the back closet. Yet I can't imagine getting rid of them. They take one drawer in a plastic shelving unit...but seem so inessential. Who knows if they even play anymore? Still, I don't think they're going.

My move is odd. I'm not moving furniture or books. I am taking a lot of my clothing with me to Paris. But what I don't take, which will probably be something like 60-70% of my wardrobe, will stay in my house. The question is, when do I start shifting the stuff around? Some of the shift has started. I put all of grandma's china in boxes above the kitchen cupboards, out of the way of my tenant. He'll get full use of all other kitchen items. How lucky am I that I don't have to pack my kitchen?

Here is all I need to do:

  1. In the living room: clear out the coat closet, drawers in the coffee table and other knickknacks. Move the stereo, tv, turntable, vcr, dvd player, speakers, and LPs.

  2. In the dining room: clear out all the personal items on the bookcase (books stay!), clear out the main two shelves in the linen closet (floor and top shelf are mine).

  3. Bathroom: remove all personal items.

  4. Bedroom: remove bed, all clothing (from dresser, shelves and closet). Dresser, bookcase (and books!), and night stand stay.

  5. Kitchen: maybe go through junk drawer. Or not. Dishes stowed.

  6. Back room: remove my "laundry folding" table (will go in the basement. Put all my stuff in the large closet.

So, what will have to go in that big back closet? All my clothing, shoes, accessories that aren't coming with me to France. The full "entertainment center" (speakers, receiver, turntable, dvd player, vcr, tv--some will be stored in the original boxes that are currently residing in that closet). My bed frame, which is pieces of lumber. It can probably go on the floor.

Pele is taking the camping gear, which isn't big and heavy but is awkwardly shaped and takes up a diproportionate amount of closet space. She's also taking the bicycle! Thank you so much! It's a huge help.

And, I'm getting rid of stuff. So far, I gave away a little paper shredder (I have newer, better one), an old turntable Spesh sluffed off on me when he moved, and a little Ikea table (I made $10!). Next to go will be a big ol' down comforter (this Saturday) and my mattress (next Thursday).

What else? I must be forgetting something. You know, this will be a ridiculously easy move. What am I worried about? I've already done the hard parts. Now I just have to tackle cleaning my house and shifting things around. I'd dearly love some company for the process, but I can manage it on my own. Whew. This may have been boring reading, but I feel a lot better now. Thanks for your patience!

Grateful for: a plan!

Wednesday, May 07, 2008

Ok

Sometimes a date is just a date. I don't want to say I'm disappointed. If anything, I'm relieved: I will be leaving the US with no unresolved emotional dilemmas (beyond the ones I currently have).

The date itself was fine. The guy was fine. He was nervous and so was I. He still resides in neutral territory. I liked him well enough to consider friendship, but I didn't feel an immediate spark (which means nothing). He didn't bowl me over with his good looks, but he was fine looking. If I were going to be around, I don't know if we'd have another date. Since I'm leaving, we won't.

Altogether, it wasn't exciting or boring or worth worrying about. Oh well.

On the Paris front, I heard from my new landlord (a couple of unanswered emails had me worried) and banking issues are resolved (I love you Capital One! Well, really, really like because, while you charge no fees, the hold times on transfers from other banks are outrageously long. Guess you have to make your money somewhere.)

I seem to alternate between gleefulness (while brushing my teeth this morning, I did a little happy dance while saying "I'm going to Paris" in my head) and anxiety (when am I going to pack, what am I going to take?). I plan to start packing my house next week. While I get to leave most of my stuff, a few things have to go and several things have to be stored. But where? The future tenant did another walk through on Monday and we agreed on what is staying and what has to go. He also agreed that I could use the huge closet in the back room as storage space. That and the basement might be enough room if I can get rid of my mattress--he is bringing his own bed.

For quite a while, I've only been able to use part of the back closet because of a leak in the roof. We are currently (yay!!!) having the roof repaired. Hopefully, this means that the closet can be fully used again. It is half-full, but a lot of what is in there is JUNK. If I could clear out the junk I don't care about, I might well be able to fill it with all the junk from the rest of the house that I do care about. And then anything that I want to keep but don't care much about can go to the damp, musty basement. Hmm.

I'm not looking forward to next week. I will try and make good use of Freecycle. After that, it's the dumpster.

Anyone want a five-year-old queen sized mattress? Free to any home! What about a bunch of old New Yorker magazines? Old MacWorld magazines? A bulky sleeping bag? A REALLY old tent? Old clothing? Anyone? Hello?

Grateful for: perspective

Wednesday, April 30, 2008

Yes

7:20 pm. I should be eating dinner right now to get back on schedule. But it's also 1:21 am so I'm not so hungry.

Were you expecting me to write while I was gone? If so, I'm sorry. I should have mentioned that I planned it to be a blog-free time. Mostly for convenience. I didn't bring my computer--I had access to the computer where we stayed. Also, writing with Mom looking over my shoulder seemed like a bad idea.

Ok, short version: I'm moving to Paris on May 27! I bought my plane ticket today. I found a place to live. I put a deposit down. It was not romantic love but it was total confidence that I will like it there, that I will be happy and that going is what I want to do. I can handle it. I will learn French! I will read, write, knit, bike, walk and make full use of the public transportation system. I will drink coffee in the morning standing at the bar. I will shop at open markets, go see movies in English with French subtitles and maybe, if I'm lucky, I'll get confident enough to get lost.

More later.

Grateful for: my wonderful plan.

Monday, April 21, 2008

Resistance

Last week, when I went out to lunch with Sailor, I talked about the time I went for a long trip (three months) to Europe on my own. I went a few months after I officially graduated from college, though it had been almost a year since I'd taken any classes.

It was an interesting but difficult trip. Much of the time, I was on my own and was incredibly lonely. It was not the fun, freewheeling affair that I'd hoped for. At 21-years-old, I did not fully appreciate the freedom that solo travel afforded, though that was exactly why I'd gone on my own. A couple of years earlier, I'd gone on a trip through school, and hated the group aspect of it. I was determined to make my own adventure--really see and experience the places that I visited--and go at my own pace. In that, I largely succeeded, but I was not very happy in the process.

I am a better solo traveler these days, as my trip to Peru a few years ago proved. But that was a 20-day trip, not a six month long relocation. It shouldn't surprise me that I am terrified at the prospect of going to Paris.

When I talked to Sailor about that trip of long-ago, I lost track of the point I was trying to make. This is the point: the few weeks before my trip, when I was packing and finalizing arrangements (I gave up my apartment and stored things around town, with friends), I was consumed with misery. I dreaded the trip. I fell into a mad crush with a guy I barely knew. (He was the roommate of a guy I dated a few times.) Man. While I was on that trip, I made lots of phone calls from pay phones and phone offices to my mom. I called Audrey a few times. I also wrote a bunch of letters (ah, the old days!)...and most of them went to that guy. Um...whoops.

When I got back, I was embarrassed. It was clear that the guy was not interested in being my boyfriend (foolish man) and I'd exposed myself to him. We went to lunch one day and I awkwardly apologized and asked him to just forget what I'd written. He was quite kind and assured me I'd done nothing worrisome. Hmm...I wonder what happened to that guy?

Anyway. Still not the point. See, this is what I do when I don't want to talk about something. I digress. I distract with (entertaining?) vignettes. I don't get to the point.

The point: I'm scared. I don't want to go. It's too hard. What if I don't like it? What if I'm bored? What if I'm so lonely it keeps me from enjoying myself? What if I don't write? What if what I write is crap? What if I don't have enough money? What if...what if...what if...

I'm lucky. Things have been going great. I'm a planner and my planning has paid off. I can do this trip and still have money left over. I SHOULD go. But do I have to? Do I want to? I like my house so well, and it's so snug, and I'll miss the cat...and my friends (!)...and it's so easy to be here, to stay here....

Change, even luxurious, indulgent, only-available-to-the-privileged-few change is hard. Change is hard, but is it good?

Grateful for: change.

PS Sorry, didn't meant to be a tease about Sailor. The verdict: friendship. That's a good thing.

Friday, April 18, 2008

Visa story

This morning, I went to the French Embassy to submit my application for a long-stay visa.

I did some research and found that bus goes from Union Station to right outside the Embassy. I got up extra early and caught the bus. My appointment was at 8:55am. The bus dropped me off outside the embassy at 8:18.

I walked through the pedestrian gate and was waved over by a man encased in a round brown-glassed security "hut." As I approached I started to pull out the email I'd printed out in anticipation of the visit, "Please print this email as it will be requested by the security."

The man said, "Are you here for a visa?"

I said, "Yes."

He said, "They don't open until 8:45."

"Oh." I said, "I guess I'm early." I didn't move.

He said, "Yeah. And the facility isn't open. There's nowhere to wait."

I said, "Oh." I felt a little helpless and lost. I looked around. We were: nowhere.

He said, "There's a cafeteria across the street."

"Ok, thanks. I'll come back. Thanks."

I walked across the street to what turned out to be (part of) Georgetown U's Medical Campus. I never found the cafeteria, but that was ok. I'd picked up some coffee and a roll at Union Station. I wandered around and looked at the sculpture, which was plentiful. It was breezy and lovely, but too cool to sit outdoors. I found an indoor lounge and read for a few minutes. At 8:40am, I went across the street and back to the embassy.

This time, in exchange for my driver's license, I got a visitor's pass and directions to the visa office. I walked up the drive and found a seat in the office. A sign read, "If you have an appointment, please take a seat. You name will be called." Within ten minutes, my name was called.

I went to the window and was asked my purpose. I presented my passport. The lady said, "Are you going to study?"

"I'm going to take a class."

"You need a different visa then."

"What?"

"You need a student visa, good for 90 days. And you need another visa if you want to stay longer."

I was befuddled. "Well, I, I'm not taking a degree, it's just a language class."

"It is the same. You don't understand."

"I didn't read that on the website."

"You read the wrong website."

I thought, "You mean the French Embassy one?" I said, "I have all the documents for the long-stay visa..."

"No. There are different kinds of long-stay visas. There are rules. It's important!"

I said, "Well, can I just apply for the tourism visa? I won't study. I'll promise not to study."

She kept my passport and told me to cross out "study" from my forms. When I started the crossing out while still standing at the window, she sent me back to my seat.

I sat and scribbled over the places where I'd written study and crossed out the name of school where I planned to take a French language class. Oy.

I went back to the window and handed her the altered forms. She said, "Do you have the other photos?" I handed them over.

"Do you have the next document required?"

I handed her my bank records. She made a mark on the application form.

She said, "Do you have the next document?"

I gave her a piece of paper on which I'd typed that I promised not to work while in France. It was signed and dated. She said, "Add to this that you will not study." I did. She made another mark.

She said, "Do you have the next document?"

I gave her the proof of medical insurance. Check. Then the "non-criminal record" certification. Check. Last, a note saying I'm staying with a friend. (They want a deed to an apartment...but how would I get that?) She didn't like the letter either. "No id?"

I said, "No, but I have a copy of her utility bill."

The woman said, "We'll call you. Please sit down."

I sat. I was discouraged. I thought, "Fine. Forget France. I'll go for three months...and then I'll live in the UK. Or somewhere else." I struck up a conversation with a woman sitting near me.

I was called up again, this time by the man working there. He said, "Write your name on this envelope. We will send the approval there. It will take up to two months."

"Two months! That's not what it said on the website!"

"You read the wrong website! Do not argue with me!"

I said, "I have it right..."

He cut me off, "Write your name and address please!"

I wrote my name and address on the envelope. I was asked to sit again and wait. I looked at the copy of the webpage. It read, " The procedure takes about 1 to 2 weeks for US citizens and 2 months for others nationalities."

I chatted some more with my new friend.

I was called to the window again. The man handed me a few pages of blank white paper. "Please go sit at that table and write on this paper exactly what you plan to do in France."

I stared at him and took the paper and sat at the table. I glanced at my waiting room friend and shrugged my shoulders. I wrote an essay that went something like this:

While I am in Paris, I plan to partake of the cultural opportunities--cinema, museums, concerts--that the city has to offer. I plan to spend time writing for a personal project. I will travel in the country. I also plan to use Paris as my "home base" when I go visit my friends in other parts of Europe. The time is a rest from my job, which I will resume when I return to the US.


I brought the completed "essay" back to the man. He smiled at me and asked me to sit down again. I felt a little dazed. I said to my friend, "It's like writing a grad school application." It wasn't exactly that, though. It was like writing the essay for my application for in-state residency in North Carolina. How to be honest and yet leave an opening for what I really intend to do (basically what I said, but I'm still going to take a French language class! Please don't tell).

I waited and was called again. The man gave me a big smile and said I would get the visa TODAY. He told me he could offer two kinds of visas: 1) six months only and nothing else to do or 2) indefinite, but with the need to apply for a residency card within 90 days of arriving in France. I chose number two.

I sat again and waited. By 10:15 I left the office with a visa.

At some point they must have realized that this is what I was asking: please let me come to your country, spend all my money, then go home. Who would say no to that?

Boy oh boy. I sure hope I'm doing the right thing!

Grateful for: persistence.

Tuesday, April 15, 2008

Enough?

Is it boring yet to say how stressed and overwhelmed I am by all my planning?

Last night, I walked home and had to rush out to take Tabitha to the vet. She needed her regular shots. Woo-hoo, that was one unhappy kitty! And she has to go back in three weeks for a booster! That will be fun.

I'm busy setting up appointments to see apartments in Paris. I'm emailing every likely place that comes up on craigslist. Some even respond. It's not a ton of places. I'm nervous.

I have almost all my documents, save one, for my appointment with the French Consulate/Embassy on Friday. Do I go without that document? Do I reschedule the appointment if it doesn't come?

I'm having people over for Passover on Saturday. Almost no one can come! I'll have between 2 and 5 guests. Oy. I have to shop tonight. Clean on Wednesday and Thursday. Cook on Friday and Saturday.

I'm still going to play soccer on Saturday. And Sunday. Don't say it.

Oh, and Sailor? He changed our Wednesday night after-work to a Thursday lunch. Boo.

Grateful for: a plan.

Thursday, April 10, 2008

I hate you Citibank

One of the many preparatory steps I took for my Paris adventure, was to open a new bank account. I already have two banks with which I do business, and a mutual fund operator, but none of them have an international presence. What I needed was a bank with branches in the US and France. Citibank seemed to fit the bill.

After one of my multitude of trivial doctor's appointments last week, I noticed a Citibank (henceforth abbreviated as "CB") branch on my walk from doctor's office to the metro. Perfect! I stopped in, waited a good 20 minutes, talked to a guy for at least another half an hour, and walked out the proud new owner of a CB account.

I got home, logged on and set everything up for internet banking. I set up links between the new account and one of my other accounts. Excitement!

Today, I remember to check on line for CB ATMs in Paris. The rates are much better if you make the transactions on their ATMs--even if it's on your US account.

After more searching than seems reasonable, I come to the page that lists all the countries where CB has branches. France is not on the list.

Astonishing! I call the relevant number and ask, "Are there any CB ATMs in Paris?" She puts me on hold.

The answer? "No."

Damn. I call the US number and say I want to cancel my account because I only opened it because I was told they had branches in France. The fellow on the phone says, "We do have branches in France!"

I say, "Not according to your website."

Guess it's HSBC for me. Argh!

Grateful for: patience.

Friday, September 14, 2007

I am awesome

I still haven't called the Spanish lessons guy but I'm going to, tonight. For real. I am. Really. Why is this so hard?

It's a damn good thing I stayed home yesterday because I haven't a minute to spare today on packing/cleaning/organizing. I'm going to Pele's right after work and who knows how late I'll be up. Well, probably not too late because I have soccer on Saturday morning. Then a van is coming to take me to the airport at 5pm (for an 8pm flight--so stupid!). Right, let's review: 11am soccer game, 30 minute drive from my house. I'll leave by 10:15 and be home by 1:30pm. That gives me 3.5 hours to shower, dress, do any last minute cleaning and pack. Good plan! I'll probably wake up early on Saturday and do most of the packing then. I foresee no packing tonight. See, I am awesome!

I got an email from JenA saying I should photograph my packing process. Is that actually of interest to anyone? If I get the pics off my currently full memory card before I start the packing process, I will do it. I could also do the camera phone-straight-to-blog thing (which is awesome and super easy, but the camera phone doesn't have much memory either...), but boy those pics are ugly.

Anyway. This is the story. I leave Saturday evening for ten fun-filled days of Mom. Mom has called me every day this week. And emailed. Seriously. She called me at 1:30 this afternoon to tell me I don't need to bring a towel.* Yeesh. I've been a little worried about the many solo driving days I have planned (not the being lonely part so much as the falling asleep behind the wheel part), but, y'know, I'm starting to think that after staying in Mom's no-room studio (it's large but has no separate rooms) for seven days and then being on the road with her for three, my week of solo driving is going to feel like a little slice of heaven. Awesome!

I'll be writing from the road [insert the usual caveats about internet access, scheduling unknowns, etc. here], so don't be a stranger.

*Not actually true. I asked about the towel. She called to tell me that a certain repair she wants done on the van is going to cost less than $100. Good to know, since I'm paying.

Grateful for: travel.

Thursday, September 13, 2007

Sweet

Sweet. That's how I would describe my date last night. A sweet, friendly, cute guy. I was dreading the date. I didn't have much sense of what he was like, other than that he wasn't dangerous. I had more to go on than the average internet date, but not much more. He was there when I arrived and I was exactly on time. Points for him: early and did not call asking for directions.

We met for coffee but I can't drink coffee after noon unless I want to be up all night. All I got was some fizzy water--he got actual coffee. He teased me about not drinking coffee and he paid for my water. I didn't mind and thought it was kind of sweet--the teasing and the paying. I would have teased me under those circumstances.

He was easy to talk to and I vented a bit about Mom and my upcoming trip. He listened, took Mom's side and told some stories of his own.

Sounds good, right? I am pleased that we got along and I enjoyed the evening. However, I'm no more enthusiastic about him than before our date. It's one of those different worlds things. He has an unspecified job at a hospital. He clearly did not want to tell me exactly what he did and I didn't press him. Also, he grew up in a small town in Puerto Rico. Nothing wrong with that but it leaves us with precious little common ground. Oh, and I'm sure he's at least ten years younger than I am. None of this means that I won't call him when I get back from my trip, I will. We may even go out again and have a good time. It just means I don't think he has much boyfriend potential. Perhaps we can be friends or perhaps I'm wrong.

Last, no work today. I stuck around the house and called it a holiday observance. So much for the gym!

While I haven't talked much about this, I'm in good shape in terms of trip prep. I have car insurance and my AAA membership. I received my "triptik" today and some new shirts I ordered that will probably come with me. I have the fancy iPod speakers, a sleeping bag, a road atlas (in addition to all the other maps and travel books), and a mess kit. All I have to do now is figure out what clothing I'm taking and how I'm going to fit everything into the fewest number of bags. I've left myself precious little time to pack, which is good, but because this is an unusual trip, I've started piling up all the things I need to bring that I might forget. I have hopes that it will go well. A week in Seattle, followed by a drive across the country. Am I crazy? No more than usual.

Grateful for: good dates.